Isu yang aku nak unjurkan kali ni adalah isu persediaan perkahwinan.
Kenape ?
Sebab sejak beberapa bulan yang lepas, aku dah go through banyak resepsi perkahwinan. And aku tengok most of the wed couple is not ready to be married.
Kenape aku cakap macam tu ?
Sebab perkahwinan ni melibatkan terlampau ramai pihak. Samada secara lansung ataupun tak lansung.
Wedding preparation has to be made months before the big day.
Kebelakangan ni, aku tengok ramai couple yang buat tak care je pasal preparation ni. Maksud aku, hanya menyerahkan segala beban preparation tu pada wedding planner or parents.
Risikonye ?
Bile ape yang dibuat tak same dengan ape yang diimpikan, mule la nak mengamuk.
Memang betol, aku terlampau muda untuk cakap pasal sumer ni. Tapi, aku bole analisis (ceh ayat) dari ape yang berlaku.
Bayangkan. Cukup ke mase sebulan untuk korang buat preparation ?
Cari raw material untuk makanan, Cari tukang masak, Cari penanggah, Cari baju or tema kawen, wedding guest list, and banyak lagi lah.
I don't think so.
You as the wedding couple should play the main role in this preparation. Tahu la orang kita ni macam mane. Asal salah sikit je dalam ape-ape majlis, mule la nak heboh sekampung.
Sebelum kawin, kite jugak kene pastikan yang kita ni betul-betul dah sedia nak jadi imam atau makmum orang.
Kenape ?
Sebab seorang makmum dan imam mempunyai tanggungjawab die sendiri.
Due2 kene cukup ilmu agama. Sebab seorang imam ade tanggungjwab untuk bawa makmum die ke jalan yang diredhai Allah dan memastikan ahli keluarganya tak tersasar dari jalan Allah.
Seorang makmum pulak perlu ada ilmu agama supaya die tak mengikut je ape yang imam die suruh tanpa tahu ape yang disuruh tu patot diikut atau tak.
yang lain. korang fikir-fikir lah sendiri.
^_^
Tuesday, January 22, 2013
Trust.
One simple word but is the most essential thing in relationship. It doesn't matter what type of relationship. But trust is the one you need to build one strong relationship.
Trust is invisible.
Trust is hard.
Trust need time.
Trust need believe
If you don't have that much of trust to others. Your relationship would not stay as you wish it could be. Some might say, in a relationship, one should not be apart from the one they love. Because, being apart will torn everything they had build.
I sincerely object that.
Why ?
Because distance will teach and reveal everything that we would like to know.
Being apart makes you strong.
It teaches you how to be sincere, trustworthy, loyal, patient and much more.
Being apart is a challenge for both of you.
It is a challenge to see how much trust and sincerity that you could build together.
If there are not enough trust and sincerity, both of you will fall.
Trust and sincerity is like a big strong pillar in a house. If the pillar is not strong enough. Your house will crumble in such a short time.
But of course, tears will be one of your friend when you are apart. Windows will be the medium for you to tell your true feelings to the stars. Wind will be the messenger to your heart.
Don't be upset.
There is a silver lining in each cloud.
Cheer up and smile.
^_^
Saturday, January 19, 2013
Rain.
It could be gentle as the flow of water in the stream. It could be harsh as the waves in the ocean.
As enchanting as the dawn and as mystery as the night itself.
It is one of my favorite events.
I have many memories with rain.
Rain teaches me how to be strong when I have to go through hardship.
Rain teaches me how to be gentle when everything was against me.
Rain teaches me how to be calm when everything is upside down.
Honestly, Rain is my life.
The tiny raindrops on my face and body keeps me happy and content. To me, rain has healing powers. It keeps me strong, happy and calm.
Rain keeps the memories of my late father. He loves the rain. As much as I do. He loves water as much as I do.
That is why I love rain. I love to play in the rain. It helps me to remember all the sweetest thing that we had done together. How he scolded me for being ignorant. How he nursed me when i was sick. How he cared for me.
Seriously, I do miss him.
Rain, please keep all the memories in your gentle raindrops. i would love to remember it as long as I live.
Thursday, January 17, 2013
Silence is a whole lot better than being loud.
Silence is silver.
Silence is mystery.
Silence is precious.
Silence is everything.
It is true though, sometimes, being loud will not help you solve the problem. Being loud will make you feel more frustrated, angry and sad. Hence, silence is the answer.
Sometimes silent is the way I used to expressed my untold feelings. True, no one will know until i told them. But hey ! I never meant to tell anybody about what I feel. So, being silent is good sometimes. I keep the secret only to myself.
But.
There is something that you might want to jot down.
Not everyone who did not speak much is weak.
Do not challenge them or you'll be sorry.
The best thing to do if you are sad, angry or frustrated is try to calm yourself for a couple of minute. Keep silent. Think about what you had done. Then take a deep breath and let it go slowly.
After that, if you need a shoulder to cry on, go find one. If not, there are always other things to do.
Cheer up guys. Life is an untold mystery. Life is one big silent thing that could haunt you if you do not try to convince it that you are strong.
^_^
Thursday, January 10, 2013
Seriously. I am fragile. Note that please. Fragile is something that could be broken easily with any actions.
I may look strong outside. But to be honest. I am fragile inside. I don't have a hero that could save me. I don't have a fortress that keep me from harm. I don't have soldiers that could guard me all the time. I just have myself that I could count myself to.
I hate false hope.
I truly hate promises.
I abandoned hope.
I left love behind.
I trust only myself.
I believe only in Him.
I don't have anything to make me strong. If my life is as simple as the wind brushing against the soft hair of a girl. Yes. I would be okay. But life is not exactly like what I had expected. Everything is totally not like the fairy tales that I used to read when I was little. Everything is upside down.
I hate to dream.
I truly hate tears.
I abandoned feelings.
I left desire behind.
I trust only my instinct.
I believe only in what is written for me.
What I wanted will never be like the songs that I used to hear. Maybe some of it does reflects me. But still. I'm still looking for the right song for me.
I really need a hero to come and save me from this madness. loneliness, tears, sadness and everything that I hide from the world.
Is there someone out there who knew how to.....Never mind. Not going to wish or hope again. False hope is what I get every time.
Saturday, January 05, 2013
Life is like chocolates and ice creams. Why ? Because they have tons of flavor. Including rare and distinct ones. Life is just the same as both of this eccentric and beautiful food. Life is full of surprises. Life is adventures. Life is everything that you must enjoy.
But of course, life has ups and downs. Not everything that we go through will be as perfect as the diamonds. There are times that we need to use some of our courage to make things far more interesting and fun. Your age is the the limitation to all your fun. Age is just a number that shows how much years we had spent on having soo much adventures and fun in life.
Life is too short to be serious all the time. Laugh and smile is the best medicine for you.
Friends and family are everything that you need. Without them, you are nothing. Seriously. Both of these 'F' are the light in you.
There's nothing more that I could say. Find the truth about life yourself. It will be worthwhile.
Tuesday, January 01, 2013
Hey ! 2013 has come ! finally. phew. -.-"
2012 tahun yang memenatkan tapi sangat-sangat fun ! I learned soo many thing and had soo much fun. 2012 jugak dah tunjukkan ape yang aku betul-betul nak tahu dan terokai. Alhamdulillah. The pain that I gain and the adventures that i had gone through is worthwhile. :)
Sekarang. Ape pulak azam tahun baru aku ?
-.-"
Sama je la kot macam tahun lepas. Tapi mostly azam aku tahun lepas dah tertunai. weeee ^_^